The last time I wrote something here, well I can't quantify how far I have come or how many things aren't the same anymore. But I am here, new place, new people,new rules, new objectives, new ME... Maybe... Just Maybe. So I raised an issue a few weeks ago about cheating and open relationships, it... Continue Reading →
Are you scared The words that always come before they make you do something you never thought true. This is beyond peer pressure, feels more like witchcraft or how else do I explain the urge to satisfy someone who I shouldn't even be talking to or care about. Desire was always someone I admired, but... Continue Reading →
How do they deal, living with demons that seem greater than anyone could speak of. Everyone talked about depression and suicide, about locked up feelings, failed promises, lost love, missed opportunities, bad health, misfortune and many other mishaps. Then i read a piece where the writer thought Depression was just a sickness, she wrote how... Continue Reading →
Welcome to August, the month of the most beautiful women to ever walk this earth, don't ask me why but if your lady was born in August, you have no idea how lucky you are. And because it is in our nature as men to naturally take our relationships for granted, don't ask me how... Continue Reading →
I fully understand your fear, when it all goes south and home seems distant. Where do we run to, how does one stay sane throughout the most difficult period of one's existence. I didn't always have to worry, i had the most beautiful home, a wife and a child to come home to every day.... Continue Reading →
Stand by your Man A phrase mostly misunderstood this days, leading us to different topics every now and then about what is right in a relationship or wrong. As if anyone ever had a formula of getting it right. The movie 'Acrimony' shaked alot of tables, too nany questions. I am no relationship expert but... Continue Reading →
I wake up suddenly. It’s dark everywhere and I can’t even see my nose, I cant see anything. I try to reach for the switch that’s always beside my bed but I find that I can’t move my hand. I try again and again but the limb refuses to obey my commands. I try fruitlessly... Continue Reading →
CHAPTER ONE Streaks of sunlight entered my eyes as the day broke. Our tattered curtains could never have kept out the light even if it was down. As such it was raised up to allow little ventilation to enter the dingy room which I, my wife Ronke and our three children shared. It is day... Continue Reading →
On Easter Sunday, i spent 20 minutes parked on the bridge at odo iya alaro, between Ojota and Maryland...now you know the name of the waste looking canal under. My car didn't break down, it wasn't heavy traffic either. It was all the emotion gathering up in my head, i picked that trip from mile... Continue Reading →
She was teary eyed as she spoke, like after long years of beating herself up, she was ready to speak about it. She had lost friends and relationships, all because of something she had no power over, and it hurt. I held her hand and waited for her words, if anyone had extra strength for... Continue Reading →
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